Where femboys & feminine hearts
connect
A free, safe, identity-affirming place to date, chat, and make friends — for femboys, trans women, non-binary folk, and those who love them. Be yourself — fully.
Safe. Inclusive. Real.
A dating space built for you
fem-boy.com is a moderated, identity-affirming community for femboys, trans people, non-binary folk, and everyone who wants genuine connection in a respectful space. Completely free, privacy-first by design — no subscriptions, no paywalls.
18+
Adults only
Moderated
Photo review flow
Privacy-first
Core product design
LGBTQ dating app with safer matching and real conversations
fem-boy.com is an LGBTQ dating app for femboys, trans users, non-binary people, and allies who want respectful, identity-affirming dating. Build your profile, discover nearby matches, and chat in a privacy-first space.
Built differently, for you
fem-boy.com was built from the ground up for the LGBTQ+ community — not retrofitted as an afterthought.
Safe Space
A moderated, identity-affirming community where every member is respected. Zero tolerance for harassment or discrimination.
Real Connections
Meaningful matches based on identity, interests, and what you're genuinely looking for — not just a photo.
Privacy First
You control your visibility. Share only what you're comfortable with — approximate location, selective profile sharing, and more.
Match Chat & Voice Notes
When you match, start chatting instantly — text, emoji reactions, and voice notes for when typing isn't enough.
General Talk
Not just dating: a moderated community chat room to say hi, make friends, and find your people.
Voice & Video Calls
Start private voice or video call invites directly from chat when both sides are ready.
Daily Spark & Vibe game
Answer daily prompts and play Would We Vibe? — guess other members’ picks and discover someone new, before you match.
Completely Free
Every feature — messaging, voice notes, calls, likes, and more — is completely free for all members. No subscriptions, no paywalls.
How it works
Getting started takes less than 2 minutes.
Create your profile
Share your identity, interests, and what you're looking for at your own pace.
Discover your people
Browse profiles with smart filters — gender identity, location, what they're seeking.
Connect your way
Match, chat, send voice notes, and share private voice/video call invites.
Everyone is welcome here
Our platform affirms all gender identities and sexual orientations.
Community support
Want to help fem-boy grow?
fem-boy is free for everyone and always will be. Your presence, kindness, and reports that keep the community safe are the best support you can give.
Ready to find your person?
Create your profile, discover matches, and connect in a space built for LGBTQ+ identities. It's free to join.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is fem-boy.com free?
Yes — 100% free. Every feature including messaging, voice notes, calls, likes, and who liked you is available to all members at no cost. No subscription, no paywall.
Who is fem-boy.com for?
femboy, trans, non-binary, and LGBTQ+ users, plus people who want respectful and identity-affirming dating.
How does safety work?
We provide moderation tools, reporting/blocking, and photo review workflows designed to reduce abuse and spam.
Do I have control over privacy?
Yes. You can adjust visibility settings, limit profile exposure, and control what personal information you share.
Can matches use voice notes and calls?
Yes. Matched users can freely chat, send voice notes, and share private voice or video call invite links — all included at no cost.
Will this stay free?
Yes. The platform is free for all members. We may offer optional community donations in the future to help fund moderation and improvements, but core features will always be free.